Pain, sorrow, loss, and change are common human experiences we must process and survive. If we carry these aches every minute of every day, our minds and bodies could become paralyzed with fear and despondency. We must, when faced with tragedy, in some logical timeframe, be willing to stand up and say, “Oh yes, there you are, my aching, pounding, grieving heart who wants to stop; who wants to quit; who wants to scream and run and hide….I see you, I feel you…”